MERE JAZBAAT

Care or control ?? I was in a  a consultation with a middle age couple.They started fighting right in front of me.  The upset husband said- See doc....I 'care' so much for her & this is what I get in return..To which the fuming wife replied- He doesn't care...he just 'controls'...! The care from one person was perceived as control by another ! Made me think...what is care and what is control?? How to identify them?? Soon I received the answer. I had an argument with my teenage daughter over a trivial disciplinery issue...Harsh words were exchanged leaving both of us in tears...😪 After sometime, as our emotions settled down , we said sorry to each other...My daughter hugged me  and said-Papa ,you know why you got upset?  You were not  upset because I did wrong..but u were upset because I didnt follow your instructions....there is a big difference..! I was stunned with her mature thinking pattern. ..I received my answer too... I was trying to c...

Brilliant quotes for liquor lovers : It takes only one drink to get me drunk. The trouble is, I can't remember if it's the thirteenth or the fourteenth. - George Burns I envy people who drink. At least they know what to blame everything on. ~Oscar Levant I take a drink only on two occasions, when I'm thirsty and when I'm not. ~Brendan Behan Alcohol may be man's worst enemy, but the Bible says love your enemy! ~Frank Sinatra I have taken more out of alcohol than alcohol has taken out of me. ~Winston Churchill Beauty is in the eye of the beer holder! -Kinky Friedman Dear Alcohol, We had a deal, you were going to make me funnier, sexier, more intelligent and a better dancer. I saw the video, we need to talk. -Anonymous I used to think, drinking was bad for me. So I gave up thinking. -Anonymous I would date you, but my heart already belongs to Johnny Walker. -Anonymous Sometimes I drink water to surprise my liver. -Anonymous You look like I need an...

A car ahead was moving like a turtle and not giving me way inspite of my continuous honking!   I was on brink of losing my cool when I noticed the small sticker on the car’s rear! “Physically challenged; Please be patient.” And that changed everything!! I immediately went calm & slowed down!! In fact,  I got a little protective of the car & the driver!!! I reached home a few minutes late, but it was ok! And then it struck me.  Would I have been patient if there was no sticker? Why do we need stickers to be patient with people!? Will we be more patient & kind with others if people had labels pasted on their foreheads? Labels like —— “ Lost my job” , “Fighting cancer”, “Going through a bad divorce”, “Suffering Emotional abuse “, "Lost a loved one”, “Feeling worthless”, “Financially broken” ....and more like these!! Everyone is fight...

वो माचिस की सीली डब्बी, वो साँसों में आग.. बरसात में सिगरेट सुलगाये ....बड़े दिन हो गए...। एक्शन का जूता और ऊपर फॉर्मल सूट... बेगानी शादी में दावत उड़ाए ....बड़े दिन हो गए...। ये बारिशें आज...

“रिश्ते जताने लोग मेरे घर भी आयेंगे फल आये हैं तो पेड़ पे पत्थर भी आयेंगे, जब चल पड़े हो सफ़र को तो फिर हौसला रखो सहरा कहीं, कहीं पे समंदर भी आयेंगे, कितना गुरुर था उसे अपनी उड़...

तू अपनी खूबियां ढूंढ .... कमियां निकालने के लिए लोग हैं | अगर रखना ही है कदम.... तो आगे रख , पीछे खींचने के लिए लोग हैं | सपने देखने ही है ..... तो ऊंचे देख , निचा दिखाने के लिए लोग हैं | अपने अं...

अगर कबीर के समय स्टॉक मार्केट होता तो वे कुछ ऐसा ही कहते. तेजी मे इन्वेस्ट सब करें... मंदी में करें न कोय.... जो मंदी में इनवेस्ट करें..... सदा करें एन्जॉय ॥ तेजी मंदी दोनों चलें.... तभी म...