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How to Handle Failure?

There was a very brilliant boy, He always scored 100% in Science. Got Selected for IIT Madras and scored excellent in IIT. Went to the University of California for MBA. Got a high paying job in America and settled there. Married a Beautiful Tamil Girl. Bought a 5 room big house and luxury cars. He had everything that makes him successful but a few years ago he committed suicide after shooting his wife and children. So, WHAT WENT WRONG? California Institute of Clinical Psychology Studied his case and found “what went wrong?” The researcher met the boy’s friends and family and found that he lost his job due to America’s economic crisis and he has to sit without a job for a long time. After even reducing his previous salary amount, he didn't get any job. Then his house installment broke and he and his family lost the home. they survived a few months with low money and then he and his wife together decided to commit suicide. He first shot his wife and child...

सोचने लायक बात

सोचने लायक बात में मैट्रो मे सफर कर रहा था।एक औरत किताब पढ़ रही थीं सामने बैठा उसका छोटा बच्चा भी किताब पढ़ रहा था तभी मेरे बाजू मे खडे एक सज्जन ने महिला से पुछा "आपने स्मार्ट्फ़...

Care or Control?????

Care or control ?? I was in a  a consultation with a middle age couple.They started fighting right in front of me.  The upset husband said- See doc....I 'care' so much for her & this is what I get in return..To which the fuming wife replied- He doesn't care...he just 'controls'...! The care from one person was perceived as control by another ! Made me think...what is care and what is control?? How to identify them?? Soon I received the answer. I had an argument with my teenage daughter over a trivial disciplinery issue...Harsh words were exchanged leaving both of us in tears...😪 After sometime, as our emotions settled down , we said sorry to each other...My daughter hugged me  and said-Papa ,you know why you got upset?  You were not  upset because I did wrong..but u were upset because I didnt follow your instructions....there is a big difference..! I was stunned with her mature thinking pattern. ..I received my answer too... I was trying to c...

Brilliant quotes for liquor Lovers....

Brilliant quotes for liquor lovers : It takes only one drink to get me drunk. The trouble is, I can't remember if it's the thirteenth or the fourteenth. - George Burns I envy people who drink. At least they know what to blame everything on. ~Oscar Levant I take a drink only on two occasions, when I'm thirsty and when I'm not. ~Brendan Behan Alcohol may be man's worst enemy, but the Bible says love your enemy! ~Frank Sinatra I have taken more out of alcohol than alcohol has taken out of me. ~Winston Churchill Beauty is in the eye of the beer holder! -Kinky Friedman Dear Alcohol, We had a deal, you were going to make me funnier, sexier, more intelligent and a better dancer. I saw the video, we need to talk. -Anonymous I used to think, drinking was bad for me. So I gave up thinking. -Anonymous I would date you, but my heart already belongs to Johnny Walker. -Anonymous Sometimes I drink water to surprise my liver. -Anonymous You look like I need an...

Invisible Labels...

A car ahead was moving like a turtle and not giving me way inspite of my continuous honking!   I was on brink of losing my cool when I noticed the small sticker on the car’s rear! “Physically challenged; Please be patient.” And that changed everything!! I immediately went calm & slowed down!! In fact,  I got a little protective of the car & the driver!!! I reached home a few minutes late, but it was ok! And then it struck me.  Would I have been patient if there was no sticker? Why do we need stickers to be patient with people!? Will we be more patient & kind with others if people had labels pasted on their foreheads? Labels like —— “ Lost my job” , “Fighting cancer”, “Going through a bad divorce”, “Suffering Emotional abuse “, "Lost a loved one”, “Feeling worthless”, “Financially broken” ....and more like these!! Everyone is fight...

बड़े दिन हो गए...

वो माचिस की सीली डब्बी, वो साँसों में आग.. बरसात में सिगरेट सुलगाये ....बड़े दिन हो गए...। एक्शन का जूता और ऊपर फॉर्मल सूट... बेगानी शादी में दावत उड़ाए ....बड़े दिन हो गए...। ये बारिशें आज...

रिश्ते जताने लोग मेरे घर भी आयेंगे...

“रिश्ते जताने लोग मेरे घर भी आयेंगे फल आये हैं तो पेड़ पे पत्थर भी आयेंगे, जब चल पड़े हो सफ़र को तो फिर हौसला रखो सहरा कहीं, कहीं पे समंदर भी आयेंगे, कितना गुरुर था उसे अपनी उड़...